‘I have had to relate to men in whom I have believed in their words: that they were separated or separated and that there were no conflicts,’ says ‘China’ Suárez about the controversy with Wanda Nara by Mauro Icardi

After Mauro Icardi published images with Wanda Nara and spoke of “second chance”, implying his reconciliation with his wife, Eugenia la China Suárez finally broke the silence, marked in recent days as the third in discord and who started conversations with the footballer.

From Spain, where she is with her three children (Rufina, Magnolia and Amancio) while filming a movie with Álvaro Morte, the actress wrote a hard, forceful and extensive discharge in which she slides that it was not she who looked for Icardi and that she is always pointed out as the one who deceives and not as the deceived, contradicting the version released by some media in Argentina and putting on the table the recurring machismo with which the behavior of many women is evaluated.

The release of China

“I write this letter to lower the external noise of lies, mistreatment and inclined glances in the construction of manipulated stories to, once again, be the scapegoat of media violence,” the artist began by saying in an Instagram story with white letters and black background and continued: “I have been silent for a long time for various reasons. The main one, for fear and inexperience, for not knowing how to name the level of lies and atrocities that are told to support the minute by minute of television.

Your side of the story

“What is happening today has a much bigger and deeper story behind it, with which many women will surely feel identified. I have had to interact with men who I have always believed their words: that they were separated or separated and that there were no conflicts. In this situation I feel an infernal Deja Vu, where I pay once again with my reputation for matters that are the personal domain of any woman. A repetition that exposes my inexperience and above all the deep credibility that I gave to these men who then kept silent, letting the wolves eat me. It seems that it is more credible for this society, knowing how they always handle themselves, that I am the bad one, the one who cheats and not the one deceived ”.

“What happened is a situation that I did not start, did not encourage and did not provoke. Having to tell this also speaks of the little privacy that women have. Meanwhile, a lot of damaging qualifiers asking my head for a long time, where the weight of how I am judged is absolutely asymmetrical. Otherwise, it would be known that I was not the one who insisted and caused this situation. I assume my inexperience, lack of understanding about much that surely must learn from now on. But I am not going to take charge for myself and for all the women who are always used and judged, of the attitudes of serial conquerors that these men have learned, and that later they know well to hide ”.

Your message for Wanda Nara

“And it also seems that it is easier for a woman to hit me, to unload. The cost of sustaining the image of a happy family is paid by me, not by the man who was irrational or slipped. At that price, everyone looks good ”.

“Being empowered does not have to do with money, with being sharp in the networks and less with insulting with the same terms that they judged you in the past, another woman. It has to do with being fair when speaking and above all breaking the silence. It is striking to me that women do not see that the same grievances with which they describe me are those that an entire society used (and continues to use) to refer to them. The reproduction of that violence that you received in the past, towards another woman to clean your image does not make you more cunning. It just puts us all back in the same place ”.

Why did you decide to break the silence

“I repeat my constant silence to preserve my family ties that have always been my priority, it played against me. But today I don’t want to be silent anymore, because I know that there are many women to whom this has happened to us and to whom the external gaze judges ”.

Thanks to those who support her

“Thanks to all the people who gave me support, who understand what I went through and kept silent in the past, letting injured people put me in unfair places and that today this is happening again, but no longer with my silence. I am a woman who is no longer afraid to assert my right to live free from prejudice. And hopefully this will not only serve as a release but also, to reflect among us ”. (D)