They chose a name for the daughter, but the clerk did not agree.  My parents couldn’t accept it

They chose a name for the daughter, but the clerk did not agree. My parents couldn’t accept it

The choice for a child is often a dilemma for parents even a few months before its birth. The task is difficult because it usually affects the rest of the child’s life. It turns out that some decisions of parents are not accepted by employees of Polish registry offices, who may refuse to give them a specific name. This was experienced by a couple who chose a traditional name of Armenian origin for their daughter.

They chose a name for the baby, but the clerk disagreed. A new mom told about the problem on TikTok

Karolina Karapetyan told in one of the recordings about the situation that happened to freshly baked parents in one of the Polish registry offices. The woman’s M is Armenian, and the couple chose to name their baby girl Armine. It didn’t even occur to them for a moment that the choice might be a problem. – The lady said that we cannot give such a name because it sounds too masculine and all women’s names should end with the letter “a”, which is very incomprehensible to me, because even the name Inez does not end with “a”, Karapetyan said in the recording. The woman’s husband explained to the clerk that the name they had chosen is of Armenian origin and is traditional, to which the woman was to ask why, living in Poland, they did not want to give the child a Polish name.

“I really don’t understand why people like this sit in places where they should be more educated and more open,” the tiktoker said. After a long conversation and numerous explanations of the couple, the clerk finally agreed to the name Armine.

People in shock. “It never occurred to me that the name sounded masculine.”

The video has already gained over 1.7 million views in 6 days after its publication. Internet users in numerous comments under the recording expressed their surprise at the official’s approach to choosing a name for the tiktoker daughter. They also shared the problems they had encountered in the registry offices.

It never occurred to me that the name sounded masculine.

After reading the list of names that were given in Poland in 2022, I am in great shock that they had a problem with Armine.

They didn’t want to enter the name Noah, because you didn’t like it at the office and you have to appeal in court.

It all depends on the official. My niece’s name is Nicole, not Nikola.

Giving names to children in Poland. Guidelines of the Polish Language Council

has prepared special recommendations for registry offices regarding naming children of persons of Polish citizenship and nationality. According to her, the name should distinguish the sex of the child for linguistic and practical reasons, and should also have a form adopted by the Polish language (e.g. Katarzyna, not Catherine, Marcin, not Martin). It is not recommended that it come from common words, geographical names, contain spelling errors and bring to mind bad associations.

Source: Gazeta

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