Growth and size of dignity: the psychologist named the five main male complexes

Psychologist Svetlana Nazoeva told Life about the most destructive attitudes of men, which often destroy completely happy relationships or because of which men do not dare to start a relationship at all. At the same time, these fears and prejudices can be absolutely indifferent to women.

First, financial and career failure. Contrary to popular belief, most women rarely consider a partner’s financial solvency or his career achievements as a defining criterion for evaluating personality. There are plenty of happy marriages and relationships with absolutely ordinary and ordinary men, but the rich and famous are often unhappy.

Small growth. The Napoleonic complex among men is very common. For some reason, they believe that it is important for a woman that her gentleman be tall. Actually it is not. If a girl falls in love, height is one of the last things she will look at, especially if it does not go beyond the standard norm.

external data. Of course, everyone wants to be attractive in appearance, but handsome men are no less likely to face personal problems than ordinary and even ugly guys. A woman evaluates the personality and energy of a man, and not his facial features or eye color, especially when it comes to a serious relationship.

The size of dignity. Hysteria around the size of the genitals or the qualities of a lover is most often fanned by the men themselves. Most women, of course, pay attention to these aspects, but by no means in a priority order. But a man can greatly spoil his life with complexes, independently developing a sense of inferiority.

Fear of being second. Many happy repeated, third, fifth and tenth marriages are known. More often than not, the first relationship is unhappy due to the fact that it starts early, when the partners still have little idea of ​​what to expect from each other.