The worst dating ever. “He suggested that I dye platinum blonde”

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Olivia: He asked if I had my first time behind me

Oliwia set up an account on Tinder a few years ago. The first person to connect her with the application was a French who came to Warsaw for a few days. – We were writing quite well. To my surprise, after three days of talking on Tinder, the guy informed me that he had bought a plane ticket to Warsaw and we will meet in two weeks. On the one hand, I was happy. On the other hand, there was a fear that my new friend was desperate – he reveals.

Before the meeting, Oliwia was very stressed. That’s because a Frenchman a few hours before him asked her … if I was behind me for the first time. – The question struck me as very strange and inappropriate. I wanted to end this relationship, but I found that since he came to Poland for me, I would meet him – says our interlocutor.

As Oliwia recalls, she and her new friend made an appointment at the Zygmunt Column. It was a frosty January day. The temperature dropped below minus fifteen degrees Celsius, a strong wind was blowing. – And my admirer showed up at the meeting without a jacket. Besides, he completely did not resemble the person in the photo. He looked much better than he really was. But that wasn’t the worst part. It turned out the guy doesn’t speak English. So he talked to me all the time using … Google Translator – reveals Oliwia. She also adds that the conversation was completely off, there was no chemistry between her and the man.

Even though the meeting lasted less than an hour, it felt very long to me. Finally, I wrote to my friend to call me. I told him then that I urgently needed to help her.

Gosia: He asked why I chose such a leftist place

Gosia, like Oliwia, had the worst date in her life with a man she met on Tinder. – We made an appointment at a tram stop in the center of Warsaw. When I suggested a place where we could sit, my new friend asked why I chose such a leftist place. This has already bothered me a bit. However, later it was even worse – our interlocutor reveals.

As Gosia reports, the conversation was not sticky from the very beginning. They did not have common topics, so they started talking about current events at that time. He appeared, inter alia, the theme of the Sekielski brothers’ film on pedophilia. – I heard then that this film is … an attack on the church. Then I was sure that I would never get along with this person – sums up Gosia.

Iza: He stated that he can stay with me tomorrow

A few years ago, at a party Iza met a New Zealander who was traveling around Poland. As she points out, she was a bit inserted back then. It felt fantastic to talk to him back then. So we agreed on a date the next day – our interlocutor reveals.

However, this time the meeting was not so successful. – Almost at the very beginning, he informed me that he was looking for a wife in Poland. He added that he is very lonely and looking for love. At one point he even cried. Needless to say, such behavior is not the best aphrodisiac – emphasizes Iza.

– Additionally, at the end of the meeting, he said that he could stay with me tomorrow! Which he booked the hostel for another month, but it will be cheaper this way. It was totally unacceptable to me. Needless to say, this relationship ended as quickly as it began – our interlocutor concludes.

Natalia: He suggested that I dye platinum blonde

In turn, Natalia had her worst date during Erasmus in Italy. – A man complimented me on the subway. I blew it, it’s nothing extraordinary in Italy. But the next day I met him in a completely different part of town. In my naivety (I was 23 at the time) I decided it was destiny and gave him my phone number.

On the first date, it turned out that a new friend wanted to change a lot of things about her. He suggested, among other things, that Natalia dye platinum blonde. Reason? Such women he liked the most. – Naturally, I am a brunette, I have dark eyebrows and I think that this hair color suits me best. I can’t imagine changing it for anyone – says Natalia.

The unsuccessful date, however, continued. – When I felt that it would rather be for nothing, the guy started kissing me passionately. I felt terrible. I pushed him away. As a result, he was very malicious towards me until the end of the meeting. He asked, among other things, if I could be kissed on the hundredth date – he recalls.

The worst thing happened at the end. – This guy was a waiter and boasted of knowing how to get out of the place without paying our order. Maybe he thought he would impress me this way? However, seeing my disgusted face, he quickly gave up on this idea – recalls Natalia.

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