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TikTokerka, who is pregnant with her fourth child, decided to oppose the idealized image of motherhood that is currently being promoted in social media. The woman decided to show what a mess reigns at her home with three children. As she admitted, managing a group of young children is a difficult challenge for her and she does not always have enough time or strength to clean up the mess at home. As he claims, its reality more often resembles chaos than the law and order prevailing in social media.
“I’ve never had such a mess in my life”
– I just want to show everyone what my house looks like, because there are many recordings about all these interiors that are beautiful – clean, pristine and aesthetic – the woman began, showing Internet users around her house, where we could see the dishes lying on the countertops and in the sink, piles of clothes and toys scattered everywhere. – This is not a competition and everyone has different priorities. A tidy home does not mean that you are a better parent – she assured in another video.
Her recording divided the Internet users. Some of them actually agreed that with a lot of children it is difficult to keep order, but also many people simply accused her of negligence.
– Sorry … we have three children, we both work, we do not have a dishwasher and no one to help at home, but in my life I did not have such a kitchen – wrote one of the Internet users. – I have never had such a shit out of 4 children and while working … lack of organization and mother’s laziness, nothing more – another reader stated bluntly.
– I have 3 children, the house is 200 m, but I have never had such a mess in my life. It is enough to put the toys back in their place after play. I clean up on a regular basis while cooking. After the walk, the children put their shoes on by themselves and ask me to hang their jackets … When children see their parents cleaning up after themselves, they do the same. Each child is involved in cleaning, washing and dusting (…) – another one added, sharing her way of keeping things in order.
Among the commentators, however, there were many people who took the side of the woman. – I honestly say that this is how the kitchen can look like after one day with children and it does not surprise me at all – wrote one of the commenters. – Half a day is enough for me and this is how it looks for me, and I have one child. I am disorganized, but that does not mean that I am a worse mother, much less that I am a worse person. I even feel a little sorry for people for whom order in the house is a measure of anything – added another.
Source: Gazeta
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