We do not feel comfortable in every relationship, but for various reasons we are stuck in it. Sometimes, for example, we get the impression that We play with a partner in a gameand we do not build relationships. According to psychologists, this is a very bad signal. Another issue concerns how the other party approaches the relationship. If we feel that we are only a “lifebuoy”which someone reached only because other plans have failed, it should light a red lamp. What else should we pay attention to?
How to recognize that our relationship has no future? The psychologist advises
The third warning sign is a lack of interest in our person. “You only hear ‘I, me and me’. The other person is not interested in you,” writes a psychologist. In addition, signals that may indicate that our relationship has no future is in her opinion:
- The relationship stresses you more than enjoys,
- Your borders and space are exceeded,
- Your other half plans are one -sided and you have to fit,
- You feel that you are standing still, you have no common plans for the future,
- You still have to guess something
- You don’t feel free to your partner, you pretend to be someone you are not.
“It’s not that every relationship must be perfect”
In her post, the expert, however, marked an important issue. “Of course, the point is not that every relationship must be perfect and trouble -free, because they do not exist,” she wrote. “But … if in your relationship you observe more tension than peace, more doubts than certainty, more unilateral effort than reciprocity … It may be a sign that it is worth stopping and looking at this relationship from a distance” – she added.
There were many comments under the post. Some psychological observers shared their experiences. “Unfortunately, I was in such a relationship for a year. One of the worst things, but also one of the most important lessons I have experienced”, “12 years in such a relationship and in total all youth is wasted for unsuccessful attempts to reach a good mental state” – we can read in the comments section. How do you rate your relationship? We encourage you to participate in the poll?
Source: Gazeta
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