He plays in Paranormal.  Due to work, he neglected his family.  Now he confesses.  “My son took it from me”

He plays in Paranormal. Due to work, he neglected his family. Now he confesses. “My son took it from me”

Robert Motyka has been conquering the Polish cabaret scene for two decades, performing in the Paranienormalni cabaret. However, fame has not only highlights, but also shadows, as both he and his loved ones found out. In the “Wprost nie” podcast, he summed up his career and said what he lost by focusing too much on work.

he started his career in the mid-1990s as a presenter in the Jowisz radio program in Jelenia Góra. Later he hosted a morning program on Radio Złote Przeboje, and then joined the Blue FM team. In 2004, he decided to try his hand at a completely different role and founded a cabaret. The first skits quickly gained recognition, which opened the door to the world of show business. Today, the group is considered one of the most popular on the Polish scene, but only years later did he realize that he had to pay dearly for his success.

Career was the most important thing to him? Motyka talks directly about what he lost due to workaholism

Few people know that before Motyka joined the cabaret, he tried unsuccessfully to get into acting school. Although he did not manage to achieve his dream index, he did not give up his dream of performing on stage. He worked hard for years to achieve his success, which finally began to bear fruit. However, in the “Wprost nie” podcast, he admitted that at some point, constant preparation for performances became his priority. – It wasn’t in my head at all that “it’s just a job, just a job, no matter how wonderful or beautiful it is, it’s just a job” – adding that I regret it today.

Only when he noticed it did he realize how many special and precious moments he had completely missed. Constant trips meant that he did not participate in raising his children as much as he would like and he did not even notice the moment when they became almost adults. This made him think. – As a 50-year-old man, I see how weak it was. I will not mention what my son must have thought when he came for some conversation, for advice, indifferently, and I said “wait a minute,” he said bitterly, emphasizing that he had not performed well in his most important role for a long time. .

Robert Motyka had a serious conversation with his son. He confessed what he apologized for

Motyka has been happily married to Monika for many years, with whom he has two children, Wiktor and Hanna. As he himself admitted, his career had a significant impact not only on him, but also on the entire family. This was especially felt by his son as he entered his teenage years. Finally, he began to rebel and express his regret directly. – My son was 17 when he told me that it wasn’t like that. He said: “Dad, it’s not like that, what do you want to talk to me about now? It should have been five years ago” – Motyka – difficult moments.

Then he realized how much harm he had caused to his loved ones with his workaholism. Even though he knew that the lost time could not be made up for, he had to swallow the bitterness and admit his mistake. He decided to do everything to repair these relations. – I apologized to Wiktor for all this. I didn’t say it wasn’t my fault – he talked about a difficult conversation he had with his child. He admitted that he became a father at a young age and was unable to reconcile parental responsibilities with the development of his own passions. – I told him I was 25 when he was born. I wasn’t emotionally prepared to be a great father, he said. If you feel like it, vote in our poll below.

Source: Gazeta

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