I am taller than my partner. I heard from my grandmother that we look like a mother and her son

I am very tall for a woman. All my life I was taller than my peers. Currently, I am 29 years old and 186 centimeters tall. Unfortunately, at various stages of life, this contributed to problems with finding a partner. I envied my brothers who, as very tall men, had great success with girls from their teenage years and never had any love problems. In turn, I had a hard time falling in love with anyone.

Grandma doesn’t share my enthusiasm

Many men do not want to date women who are taller than themselves. I also thought for a long time that I wouldn’t feel comfortable in the company of a much shorter boy. My approach changed when I met Błażej. We have been in a happy relationship for over a year and I have never been so happy. However, my grandmother does not share her enthusiasm.

Błażej is not short. He is 179 centimeters tall. Many people would consider it to be quite high. However, we are seven centimeters apart. It doesn’t bother us at all. My partner is exceptionally handsome and, most importantly, has a great personality and character. As I mentioned earlier, I have never been so happy and I have never managed to create such a successful relationship before. Recently, however, I heard some unpleasant words from my grandmother.

I’m 186 and taller than my boyfriend. My grandma said she couldn’t look at us shutterstock, siriwat limsuvech

After talking to my grandmother, I felt very sad

I visited her for the first time since Easter, where I appeared with Błażej. After that family meeting, I was sure everyone liked him. It was really nice. However, during the May weekend, my grandmother told me something that spoiled my mood for a while. She said that we didn’t match visually at all and that she couldn’t look at us. As she added, “For me, a much bigger guy would be useful, because this one looks like my son next to me.”

I felt terribly sorry. After visiting my grandmother, I felt terrible. It’s natural that we would like our loved ones to accept our love choices. However, after a deeper analysis, I remembered that this was my life, not my grandmother’s. And I know best what will be good for me. If there were misunderstandings or any form of violence in our relationship, I would know that it should end. However, my partner’s shorter height will not contribute to this.