They don’t want children at weddings.  Parents cry and then you have to “pull them out of the joints”

They don’t want children at weddings. Parents cry and then you have to “pull them out of the joints”

The wedding season will begin soon. As every year, popular discussions related to this topic will return. One of them concerns children at weddings. Although weddings without children are becoming more and more common, this issue is still highly controversial. Katarzyna Gajek, who has been organizing weddings for 19 years, recently commented on this topic. The wedding planner appeared in Agnieszka Matracka’s program “We have time”.

As the expert emphasized, the issue of children at weddings is still a controversial issue. According to her experience, the youngest are often bored at this type of events. – These children are just disappearing there. They don’t feel well. Maybe two hours of fun. They will eat dinner, run, and then get bored, she said. And as she added, parents usually do not supervise them. – That’s why when there is a wedding planner, he pulls these children out, for example from ponds – revealed Katarzyna Gajek in the “We’ve got time” program.

Brides and grooms are increasingly deciding to take this step

The expert noted that, in her opinion, the biggest problem is not the children, but how to take care of them. That is why more and more often the bride and groom decide to hire animators who will take care of the youngest guests. Interestingly, they are often even invited to churches.

They don’t want children at weddings. Parents are bad and then you have to ‘pull them out of joints’ Bogdan Sonjachnyj//shutterstock

Weddings without children? People are divided

Some time ago, our article on weddings without children sparked a heated discussion. Even though many participants agreed that the bride and groom’s decision should be respected in this matter, many of them had a completely different opinion. – I certainly wouldn’t come to such a wedding. It’s up to me to decide whether I should take the children with me or not. This is a disregard for a given family that has children – wrote one of the discussion participants firmly. While another said:

I am in favor of absolutely listening to the will of young people in this matter. I’ve heard the argument that for a wedding for, let’s say, 50 people (because that’s the budget and the size of the room), the bride and groom would rather invite a friend, a close neighbor, than a cousin’s three children. With whom they have almost no contact on a daily basis.

Others, on the other hand, claim that a wedding is not a place for small children. Therefore, despite the invitation, they would not take their children with them. – We go without children because our children simply don’t like loud music, crowds of strangers and lots of stimuli around. Such an event is torture for them, wrote one of the discussion participants.

Source: Gazeta

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