They had affairs with married people. They say directly what turns them on: “Another woman’s man wants me.”

The issue of marital infidelity was discussed by a journalist from the British daily, Eve Wagstaff. Betrayal is a traumatic event that is associated with many difficult emotions and difficult experiences. In addition, there is the issue of being cheated on by a partner, and the resulting feeling of humiliation and anger. , sadness and helplessness. Many people decide to end their relationship after such an event. Some of them try to save it and choose, for example, couples therapy.

However, “The Mirror” decided to check what the situation looks like from the other side, i.e. from the perspective of women who are in relationships with married men. The author of the article collected their statements from social media. The questions concerned whether the person had ever dated someone who was in a relationship and how that relationship ended, and whether they would have been able to do so if they had been aware of their partner’s obligations to the other person.

According to the author of the article, the statements were extremely diverse. Some of them aroused irritation and anger, some of them sympathy. One of the women wrote, for example: “I have a long-time friend who is only looking for this type of relationship. She is not interested in getting married, long-term relationships or having children and she has her own type,” she began.

He expects discretion and if he feels for even a moment that the other person will start to feel something, he has no chance. She has been doing this for almost 20 years and has never found herself in a compromising situation. Absolutely nothing to brag about, but it’s a truly amazing feat

– she added.

“I did it because I fell madly in love. Or at least that’s what I thought. He was a hidden narcissist (…). I was young, insecure, with a very traumatic childhood, in an abusive relationship and recovering from a traumatic event in my life, “I had no idea how to deal with it,” another person said.

An affair with a married man. What drove them? They answer: “Because I can”

Another Internet user said that she also had such an experience. She was dating a man who, he claimed, was in an “open relationship.” “There was a huge mess inside him. They pretended to be more open and relaxed than they actually were, and his partner was strangely jealous of me and was convinced that he would leave her for me,” she wrote. Ultimately, this led to the end of her relationship with the man in question.

When asked why she got involved with a married man, one of the women replied: “Because I can. I like the fact that another woman’s man wants me and is willing to risk everything for me.” Still another wrote that such a situation happened to her once and she would “never make this stupid mistake again.”

The article also quotes a woman who has a very clear position on cheating. She added that betrayal was unacceptable to her and it still hurts her a lot. “The betrayal made me realize that more than broken trust and lack of respect, what hurts me the most is that there is another woman out there who thinks she has an advantage over me because she managed to get my partner (…)” – she allegedly wrote . “First of all, I am ashamed that I chose a partner who did this to me. Secondly, I don’t understand how a woman could do something like this to another woman,” she emphasized.