No matter what the reason for the breakup was and who made the decision to break up – whether we were faced with a fait accompli or we were the initiators of ending a certain stage – this is probably not an easy time for us. Especially if the feeling is still alive and we think back to the moments spent together.
It is worth remembering that everything requires patience and healing of wounds, and often also seeking help from a psychotherapist or psychiatrist (let’s not reject this path and don’t be afraid to ask for help!). However, if we feel that we are coping with the situation well, and we would like to try to distance ourselves from our thoughts and symbolically close the door behind us – magic has quite a lot of ways to do this. Here are a few of them.
A salt bath will set you free
Every magic enthusiast knows how powerful it is and how important it is in all rituals and folk beliefs. One of the easiest ways to cleanse yourself of your ex’s energy will be a salt bath. All cutting off rituals are best performed during the waning Moon, i.e. after the full moon until the new moon. To cleanse yourself with salt, gently rub it on your body, saying your intention aloud (what you are cleansing yourself from), and then rinse with water. If we have a bathtub, we can perform such a ritual with herbal oils or bath fluids (be careful with allergies) – this will enhance its effect.
Examples of lavender, verbena or rosemary will work great in this case.
Candle magic – just be careful!
Candles are one of the simplest forms of magic. Just choose a candle in white (it has cleansing power and can replace any other color of the candle) or in the color that we associate most with our former partner. Some people use a black candle in cutting off rituals – but be careful, it has a very strong magical effect and is not recommended for everyone, we should handle it very carefully! And remember that it cuts off some things forever, irreversibly. It is also recommended for people who have been practicing magic for a long time.
All you need to do is light the candles with the intention of cutting them off from the person in question, let them burn down completely, and then throw them away. We can also write down our name and the name of the person we were in a relationship with on a piece of paper – draw a line between the names symbolizing our relationship. The sheet of paper should then be burned and the candle should burn out completely. Let’s also remember not to send bad energy during the ritual and not to think negatively about our former partner – everything we send may come back to us with double strength, so let’s proceed carefully.
A fortune teller advises how to cut yourself off and spiritually cleanse yourself from your ex (illustrative photo) A fortune teller advises how to cut yourself off and spiritually cleanse yourself from your ex. Photo. fizkes / Shutterstock.com
Candle and string
The ritual of cutting the cord has African roots. To make it, all we need is an orange candle and a string. You should light a candle and look at it and think about cutting yourself off from the person. When visualizing the separation, at the end of the relationship, cut the string and then blow out the candle. This is a shamanic practice, you can also use (as above) a piece of paper with your name and burn it.
*Remember to treat such topics with distance and a pinch of salt.
Source: Gazeta
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