There is a common stereotype in society that with age, women’s libido decreases significantly, while men’s libido remains high. This is not true, but according to couples and relationship consultant Christian Thiel, it is a perfect excuse for men who no longer want to talk to their regular partners about their needs in a relationship and intimacy. They found a much simpler way to be happy, all you need is enough money.
Men have found a way to satisfy their needs, but at the same time
The Onet editorial office received a letter from a man who explained how in some circles men manage to satisfy their sexual needs, but in a way that is comfortable and without unnecessary conversations.
In many of my friends’ circles, my wife’s interest in sex declined after having children. And that was just the beginning. The decrease in libido on the part of the partner continued, for example due to the entry into menopause. However, for us men, libido does not change with age or years in a relationship. To satisfy them, like my friends, I use frequent business trips as an excuse to engage in paid sex.
– he explained, seeing nothing wrong with it at all.
In an ideal world of men, women should always have the same needs. However, when this does not happen, they prefer to escape and cope in other ways, just to avoid talking about feelings and emotions.
“Psychological closeness leads to physical closeness”
According to Christian Thiel, physical intimacy declines in relationships not because of women’s low libido, but because of a decline in interest in each other. Men prefer to indulge in their hobbies, escape from spending time alone and from talking about problems and needs. This makes the woman distance herself, feel “emotionally unsatisfied”, and therefore stop feeling the need to have sex with him.
While you and your friends are looking for a solution to your problem in paid sex, your wives are rolling over in the sheets with a nice man who is willing to devote time to them and is interested in them.
– says the advisor.
According to Christian, such behavior by men is simply taking the easy way. Having money gives them a sense of comfort. They don’t want to make the effort to stay close to their wife when they can easily buy what they need. Saving the relationship is possible, but you need to talk, otherwise it will end in a complete breakdown. The expert adds that it almost always involves sex with much younger women who would not normally pay attention to a man. It’s a way of boosting your ego, feeling more confident and attractive.
Source: Gazeta
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