New Year, new me – this is the principle followed by many women. January is a time to find your own path, set goals, and desire changes in areas that do not give you satisfaction. This is the time when singles browse dating sites and hope that they will find someone who will be right for them and with whom they will feel happy. Online dating, unfortunately, involves several dangerous behaviors, which are highlighted by Dr. Mateusz Grzesiak, psychologist and lecturer at the WSB Academy, in an interview with
Caspering is a dangerous behavior in online dating
Those who have already taken their first steps in online dating have come across names such as ghosting, orbiting or mooning. Recently, a behavior called caspering has become popular. Each of the four above-mentioned behaviors refers, among others, to actions involving manipulation. Caspering may be associated with the popular ghost Casper, known from children’s fairy tales. This is a very good association. The name was borrowed from him and describes a pickup artist who appears and suddenly disappears. What’s worse, it does not disappear permanently, but reminds us of its existence and presence from time to time. Each time he shows hope that the relationship can reach a higher level.
Unhealthy behaviors affect our sense of self-worth
– Globally, we are dealing with a degradation of the quality of dating resulting from an objective and egoistic approach to life. It will be worse. – emphasizes Mateusz Grzesiak. This means that you can easily find one or even several partners online. Therefore, according to the psychologist, it is important to realize what dangers await us if we decide on this type of dating. There are many red flags to which we should be sensitive so as not to be deceived and fall victim to manipulation and other unhealthy behaviors.
Healthy egoism is very desirable, but in the current era of social media, unfortunately, we are dealing with a lot of verbal and image manipulation, a lack of respect for people and their privacy, which offends me greatly. A large number of specialists, especially psychologists, without any offense, write anything and about anything just to be known! Drama. What is true and what is happening in the real world is tangible, it is important and valuable – all fiction leads nowhere. It is worth remembering this to avoid any disappointments
– commented one of the Internet users.
Source: Gazeta
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