Did the wedding almost lead to parting?  It was about the guest list.  “Do not complain”

Did the wedding almost lead to parting? It was about the guest list. “Do not complain”

A couple wanted to get married in an intimate setting. For this purpose, they invited only 3 people to their ceremony. This resulted in a huge argument between the groom’s witness and his partner. For a long time, the man did not know whether his best man would appear at the wedding.

The case was described by the mirror.co.uk journal based on an entry from the popular Reddit internet forum. One of the users of the platform shared a confession about the planned wedding with his fiancée. Well, the wedding is supposed to be intimate, and the whole ceremony is very discreet. The couple invited only witnesses and a friend of the bride as a photographer to their wedding.

The decision caused quite a controversy among the couple’s friends. As the author of the entry admitted, it even led to a sharp quarrel between them. Nevertheless, the man does not want to change his decision. However, it turned out that the best man refused to attend the ceremony.

“The groom caused an ‘argument’ between his friends after inviting only 3 people to his intimate wedding. Now the best man refuses to attend – unless his partner is invited,” we read in mirror.co.uk.

The wedding almost led to a breakup? All because of the guest list

“My fiancée and I want to get married this year. We both don’t like traditional weddings and we don’t like being in the spotlight. We want to get married primarily for ourselves because we love each other,” the author of the entry explained.

“If we were to have a traditional wedding with many people, we would probably prefer not to get married. That’s why we decided that each of us would invite only one person (groomsman and bridesmaid). For my fiancée – Maria, for me – Frederik,” he continued.

“Kim – a good friend of the bride – will also come because she takes pictures and we both know her well. So there will be five people together (bride, groom, best man, bridesmaid and friend who takes pictures). That’s it,” we read.

Now Frederik’s partner – Roger – complains that he is not invited. There was an argument between him and my best man Frederik because of this. Roger says he wouldn’t go to a wedding that Frederik isn’t invited to and expects the same from his partner

– the future husband laments. But he adds that “they definitely don’t want any other people there” because “not even families are invited.” “I told Roger we didn’t want to change our plan and invite him,” he said.

Storm in the comments. “Your wedding – your rules”

Finally, he asked Internet users for advice and asked for an assessment of the situation. His post was commented over 450 times. “Your wedding – your rules” – we read in one of the comments.

“If you had a normal wedding, it would be rude not to invite his partner, but that’s obviously an exception. He’s acting ridiculous,” another person added.

“Some such rules – predictably and obviously – will cause lasting resentment. If you’re comfortable with it – go for it, but don’t complain about the results” – assessed another. Some time later, the future groom updated his entry, adding that Frederik would take part in the ceremony – despite the opposition of his partner.

Sources: mirror.co.uk/Reddit

Source: Gazeta

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