In almost every long-term relationship, sooner or later the topic of engagement and wedding comes up. Not always both sides are ready for this step at the same time and then decide to postpone it a bit. The problem, however, comes when she wants it more and more, but can’t wait for the engagement ring.
Women are tired of waiting for an engagement. “I’m sorry he’s not doing anything about it”
Many women in such a situation wonder whether, despite frustration and nerves, they should wait patiently until he finally decides to ask them for a hand, or whether it is better to let the man know what is expected of him. Several women in this situation have shared their thoughts with us.
We’ve been in a relationship for 10 years and I still don’t have a ring. How long can you wait?! There have been plenty of opportunities to propose, and I’m wondering if our relationship makes sense at all. I love him, but I’m starting to doubt if he really loves me since he won’t take the next step
says Al.
Constantly waiting for a ring causes me frustration. We’re both in our thirties, and we’ll be seven years together this summer. For some time now I have felt the need to take a step forward. I’m not saying that we should plan a wedding right away, that’s not the point. Engagement is just another stage for me, showing that this relationship is something more. I’m sorry he’s not doing anything about it. Maybe I should tell him directly?
Gosia wonders.
I’ve always wanted to get married and start a family. My partner knows this from the beginning. We’ve been together 5 years and he still hasn’t done anything about it. Even though he assures me that he loves me, the waiting makes me a little depressed. More than once I have heard accusations from family and friends that he probably does not treat this relationship seriously and “probably does not love.” Friends even laugh that Duchess Kate used to be “Waity Katie”, and now they should call me that
– writes Kasia.
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Source: Gazeta
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