According to Jana Hocking, divorced, single men are an “untapped market” worth looking into when looking for a significant other. Their past experiences often make them learn from the mistakes they made in their marriage and are determined not to repeat them. However, she recently admitted that there is an exception to this rule. She experienced it firsthand.
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She made an appointment with a divorced man. “Sparks Flew”
In the latest column for the specialist, she talked about dating divorced men. Although she still believes that they are definitely worth looking into, she decided to make one correction to her earlier statements. She revealed which divorcees it is better not to build a new relationship with, a at least not right away.
Jana Hocking told about the situation that happened to her. Through it, she made contact with an interesting man who was divorced. They quickly went on their first date, which went great. “Sparks were flying,” the specialist admitted. Therefore, they immediately planned a weekend together in a charming hotel with a spa and a wine bar. Everything was going like a fairy tale until the first night they were to spend together.
Not everything went her way. “Let this be a lesson for us all”
After a splendid dinner they retired to their room, where they watched and drank wine. “Let this be a lesson to all of us,” Jana wrote. It turned out that after drinking alcohol, the man began to complain. First, he revealed that he misses the kids, which in itself wasn’t a bad thing, however he made it clear to her that he would rather spend that time with them than with her. It turned out that his divorce was a relatively fresh case, which he had not yet worked through. What’s more, he admitted that he didn’t think he’d ever be able to properly date again, and that prefers the single life. He also started talking about his previous relationship.
What type of divorcee is better not to date? The specialist reveals
By the end of the weekend, the specialist, instead of being “girlfriend material”, felt like “therapist”. While she helped the man recover, the sparks had died out. After the outing, she decided she would never date newly divorced men againbecause they need time to digest the separation, determine custody of the child, and sometimes also go to therapy. – It must be at least a year she concluded, considering it a safe time.
Source: Gazeta
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