“This is not how I get married… My children come first”: A woman leaves her boyfriend in the middle of a civil marriage for this terrible reason

“I’m not getting married like that.” Another postponed wedding has been announced in this month of December. This time it was the bride who brought her partner before the authorities, who were going to unite them in a civil marriage.

There is a video of the awkward moment that catches everyone’s attention on social networks. However, there are those who think it is an ‘act’ and question the situation.

The ‘no wedding’ case went viral and took place in Chinú, a municipality in Córdoba, Colombia.

The video is long, the first part is where the bride expresses her refusal; The second takes place among complaints, hints and even shouts.

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Why the bride canceled the wedding

The ceremony began and the bridal couple, dressed to the nines, listened attentively to the authorities.

But when confronted with the notary’s decisive question, the woman’s answer left the guests and the groom confused.

The protagonists of these viral videos are Jéssica Avilés and Santiago Restrepo, they publish Colombian media, such as El Heraldo de Barranquilla and El Tiempo.

–Jéssica, is it your wish to conclude a civil marriage through the notarial procedure with Santiago Restrepo Vega with your common sense? asks the notary.

The bride began to feel restless and said she would not get married.

–I don’t know, because there were problems just todaythe woman answers.

–The ceremony has been suspended, she does not want to get marriedindicates the notary.

Silence overwhelmed those present “and only the applause of a man who does not appear on camera was heard.”

This same man – apparently the groom’s father – then said, “Done! Perfect! “It’s the best thing that happened.”

The bride handed the ring back to Santiago and the silence continued for a few more seconds.

The reason for canceling the wedding revolves around what would formally become Jéssica’s father-in-law.

The girlfriend spoke again: “The father does not agree with this. Santiago lied to me. “He told me that his father was very happy, that he had paid for the wedding with so much love.”

–But are you going to marry your father?, they ask the woman

-He is guided by his father. I don’t get married like that. How did you treat my children when I arrived? My kids first! And I told you. I came because I discovered this was now here. If I know, I won’t come,” the bride explained, describing BluRadio on Wednesday, December 20, 2023.

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“Since they don’t want to pay, that’s where the doors are”

“As you already know what happened,” says a young woman who takes the microphone, “that man owes money.”

“Because they don’t want to pay anything… if they don’t want to pay anything… there’s one door and another because because they don’t want to pay anything,” he points out. out.

The girl, in a tight and short blue dress, informs those present that they must contribute a grain of sand to help pay. He also proposes to continue with the party and thanks some gentlemen who sent some puddings.

As told in El Tiempo, Santiago and his father decide to leave and some screaming is heard. Also some words that are out of tune.

But one scream in particular attracts attention again and closes the video: “Bye, bye, bye. “Let your father continue to decide for you,” they say to the groom.

She canceled her wedding, but continued with the ‘non-wedding celebration’: without a veil or crown, the bride celebrated with her entire family.

In networks they comment on the failed wedding

Lili Guihurt: “God will support her, it was the best decision of her life”

Nayarit Castañeda: “I only see comments saying ‘poor man’, but no one is talking about the courage she had to avoid an unhappy life. It wasn’t the way, but I had to do it’

Maryelin Ardiles Question: And why humiliate him?

Monica Angarita: “I don’t think anyone has understood that the family of the man she is going to marry is making fun of her children, and the truth is that I congratulate her because her children come first and not a man who wants her or her children does not give them their place. “children”.

Jennifer Pabon: “Woman, I admire you, I see in your eyes the desire to cry and where you are not wanted, it is better not to be, brave woman.”

(JO)