Alejandra Jaramillo: “When patterns repeat themselves in relationships, it’s because our childhoods lack gaps”

During the new broadcast Sit who can!, Alejandra Jaramillo He referred to a syndrome that makes a person repeat patterns in a couple.

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The Ecuadorian quoted a therapist who attributed this behavior to affective gaps in childhood and adolescence. “When mistakes are repeated, patterns are repeated in relationships, it is because there are gaps in our childhood, in our adolescence that we want to fill through our partner.” Jaramillo said.

He gave an example of the lack of love between father and son. “If my father wasn’t gentle with me, I demand that my partner be gentle with me and I’m able to accept whatever it takes to get what I’m missing, so the patterns repeat themselves,” added.

“The first thing is to identify what is missing, and the second thing is to solve it individually, so that when you are good, you are happy”, constant. (AND)