I think that if you ask someone what they are looking for in life, the answer, deep down, is only one: to be happy.

You may not have realized that the ends you envisioned are only means to an end: happiness. If you plan to be a civil engineer, computer engineer, environmental engineer, lawyer, etc., what you are looking for is to achieve your happiness through doing one of these professions. Practicing it, or the activity we strive for, is an important part of happiness, hence the importance of choosing well.

The criminal must be caught and supported to turn his life around. You have the right to change… not to harm us.

There is another aspect of happiness that is immutable: making the immediate family happy. To achieve this, we need not only material opportunities, but also a network of situations that can be difficult to manage: patience, empathy, reaching the depths of our children, etc. Building optimal relationships with them and managing that relationship well and long-term can be a complex task, but achievable. . A happy family in difficult circumstances can undoubtedly manage adverse situations better. The addition of happy families results in a better society. A family that effectively lives according to the correct values ​​instilled by its parents creates a society of values. And such a society will not be prone to any type of crime. So a fundamental part of the long-term fight against crime involves a change in our lives: prioritizing the values ​​that every family must live permanently and practicing them effectively. Happy children are unlikely to be criminals. Well-formed teenagers would never sexually abuse anyone. Parents who truly love their children will find it difficult to offend them. Every human being carries with him his own history, and undoubtedly every being is to a large extent a product of his past. Therefore, we must try to build a good life story for our immediate family, support them in realizing their dreams, and guide them objectively. If you ask every criminal you catch what their childhood was like, you’re sure to find a large part of the explanation. Every being is, to a large extent, a product of its history. So, I repeat, building good stories leads us to building a qualified society.

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If life circumstances have made us unhappy, there is a remedy: forgiveness and action. Forgiving those who have hurt us is imperative, not because they deserve it, but because forgiveness takes the burden off our shoulders, relieves us. This does not mean from now on communicating with the person who caused the damage. It’s simply turning the page for your own happiness. Freed from the weight, it is urgent to get up and recapitulate the actions for the realization of interrupted dreams. One more thing remains: to take problems, no matter how serious they are, as lessons and turn the page.

So, let’s start shedding pounds once and for all.

The criminal must be caught and supported to turn his life around. You have the right to change, but not to harm us. (OR)