A person who cheats on his partner with a colleague often changes his habits and hides his phone. This, according to Mail Online, was told by psychotherapist Toby Ingham. He also named other clear signs of deception.
So, he called the fact that the partner no longer invites him to get-togethers with colleagues as a signal to be wary. “If you were previously invited to work meetings, but now this is not encouraged, then there may be a reason for this,” he said.
According to Ingham, a person who has an affair with a colleague is often late from work, citing increased employment, the psychotherapist continued. This changes not only its behavior, but also its appearance. If your partner has always been calm about what to wear to work, but suddenly began to pay attention to it, find out the reasons for such changes. There is nothing wrong with wanting to look good. However, if he puts in more effort to look brilliant at work, he may be trying to impress someone else, the expert suggested.
The desire for privacy is one thing, but if a person suddenly has a passion for setting passwords on a phone, computer or tablet, you need to start worrying, the therapist noted. He added that deleting the history on the computer or turning off the “share my location” feature could also be a sign that the person is hiding something.
If a partner begins to constantly mention a hitherto unfamiliar name in a conversation, this is a signal to be wary. The reverse situation is also a wake-up call, when a person completely stops talking about the one about whom he previously reported the news.
Also, a person who has something to hide becomes touchy and, with any leading questions, begins to panic and defend himself.
“If you find that your partner likes a colleague, you should not spy on his phone or try to deceive him by mentioning the name of the passion more often in his presence,” the therapist advises. “Couples need to be open and honest about everything.”
Source: Rosbalt
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