The psychologist listed the qualities of “ideal” women

Absolutely ideal people do not exist in nature, but there are qualities that women should acquire for their own happiness and well-being. Psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky spoke about this.

According to him, it should be taken for granted: in principle, ideal people do not exist and cannot be. At the same time, there are things that a woman with adequate self-esteem and self-love simply will not do.

For example, she will never shift the responsibility for her well-being to other people: mom and dad, husband, friends or her children. She will rely on herself and her strength. Such a woman will not depend on anyone financially and will be able to provide for herself.

In addition, women with high self-esteem will not blame their problems on others. Such a lady is able to ask for help if she is needed – but she will not just sit back and wait for a savior.

Girls with a healthy attitude towards themselves will not seek approval from others. In general, they are accustomed to doing everything only as they wish: to work where they like, to wear clothes to their liking. Still, such women do not plunge into constant comparisons of themselves with others. The only person it makes sense to compare yourself to is yourself. And a self-confident lady understands this, she knows that there will always be someone richer, more successful, slimmer – and there is no point in comparisons, the psychologist noted.

In addition, a self-confident girl does not seek to get married: it is not the ring that is important to her, and if only some kind of husband, but respect and love. Therefore, neither the stamp in the passport nor the children are an end in itself for her. Such a person will be able to wait for a worthy man or quite happily live alone.