Why does a man give vouchers to the Maldives to one woman, and not even bring a stunted rose to another on Valentine’s Day? Largely because of the woman’s attitude to herself and to a man, psychologist Victoria Dmitrieva believes.
She also listed five rules for a woman receiving gifts.
First of all, the expert pointed out, a woman needs to love herself – treat herself with respect and dignity, – says psychologist Victoria Dmitrieva.
It is also important to love your partner. “Treat him with respect and dignity, and not nag and control, do not“ eat up ”the brain with eternal anxiety,” the psychologist noted.
According to her, you need to take care with gratitude. “Accept everything that a man does for you with gratitude,” notes the psychologist. – Rejoice sincerely at this care, all the gifts, attention – and do not restrain yourself in emotions. In no case do not pretend to be the Snow Queen – only neurotics like that.
Dmitrieva also said that you should not demand only money and gifts from a man. “You can’t treat a man like a purse with legs, and endlessly demand:“ Buy, provide, satisfy all my wishes, solve all my problems, ”says the psychologist. “We must also show a lively interest, passion, attraction.”
The expert notes that the most pleasant thing is to pamper with gifts that person who does not expect this, but at the same time enthusiastically accepts any gift, and even without gifts, he is happy that you have each other.
She also added that one should not spare resources for oneself. “Pamper yourself, spend money on yourself,” says Victoria Dmitrieva. “Show what kind of attitude you deserve so that everyone can see what your level is, what gifts you deserve.”
Source: Rosbalt
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