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According to some adults, children at a wedding are a disaster. They are loud, there are plenty of them everywhere, and they cannot be serious at important moments, such as, for example, the marriage vows. Young couples wanting to avoid trouble, simply do not invite the youngest to their wedding. It turns out that the older generation is also unwelcome for some.
This bride and groom have imposed age restrictions at their wedding
While most people can understand the lack of children at a wedding, the age limit, which only allows guests up to the age of 70, may be surprising. A couple on the popular website “Reddit” described their story. Unfortunately, most of the families of the future bride and groom are furious.
– “We are getting married this fall and are planning a wedding. Both my fiance and I have large families and we are trying to arrange the guest list so as not to exceed the budget. Our grandparents are over 80 years old and the fiance’s grandmother has Alzheimer’s disease – he forgets who they are. different people, often doesn’t know where he is, and sometimes he starts crying or screaming for no reason. It’s really depressing. My grandparents have health problems and require a lot of care and attention. I don’t want something like this to spoil our big day. for his grandmother to scream or make noise at the ceremony, or for the guests to be distracted by the fact that my grandfather needs help. I’m afraid everyone will pay attention to them and not to the wedding and the bride and groom. “
– translator.
Therefore, me and my fiancé decided that we do not want people over 70 at our wedding. I believe that they would be bored and it would be more comfortable for them to be at home. In addition, it will be an opportunity for their guardians to relax and have fun, not to be overly worried about chores. My fiancé agrees with me, but the rest of the family are outraged.
– they add.
Internet users are divided
The vast majority believe that the behavior of the future is unacceptable and they do not appreciate what they have at all. Not everyone can invite their grandparents to the wedding and reception.
You are horrible. You should be glad you still have grandparents. Mine are already dead.
I’m sure your grandparents will be very sorry that you don’t want them at the wedding. There is a difference between people over the age of 70 and children under the age of 10. You can’t exclude someone just because they can’t dance. You will offend and hurt many people.
– Internet users write.
There were also voices that the young couple did well.
This is your wedding and you have the right to invite whomever you want. I understand that you don’t want people on it to disturb it. Especially my grandma who won’t even remember this wedding.
I love the fact that everyone accepts weddings without kids, but when someone puts an upper age limit for guests, people go crazy. It’s your wedding, do what you want, but don’t be surprised if some of the people don’t show up.
What do you think about all this?
Source: Gazeta
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