“I present to you the most controversial graphics I have created in my life,” an expert wrote on her Instagram. Its purpose was to encourage parents to discuss whether children should be commissioned to children. She pointed out that the approaches can be extreme. And this is also visible by reading the comments. Some of the opinions that appeared on another platform were quoted by a psychologist.
“The kids embrace the house and the old sit on the couch, watch the series and drink drinks”
“A guide on how to make a child a servant”; “9-year-old and cleaning the toilet? From a child want to make a cleaner”; “I wonder what it would look like, as if parents were guided by it. They would probably sit on the couch, and A child after 6 hours at school will have to do everything for parents and someone will say that this is a good upbringing“;” The kids embrace the house and the old se sit on the couch, watch ‘M jak miłość’ and drink bacardi. Well, people should not look like real life !!! ” – we read in the content of the entry.
“In Poland, probably every child born before 1990 had such a childhood. The old ones did not sit on the couch, they did not drink Bacardi. They worked, chased their food, earned extra money on their sideFor children to have anything better of commercial stores, look after old parents … life. It was like that, “one of the Internet users wrote.
I think that many parents do not include children in their home duties, because if they want to do it in a meaningful way (including instead of ordering), it requires more attention, and often more time and nerves than to embrace something yourself. I understand this, but I will also insist that it is worth doing!
– we read in the next commentary. A different user has a similar opinion: “Since the house is common, the obligation to keep it in the head is common. Everything with a head and adapted to age and situation. Nobody lies on the couch with a drink. “
“Our 2.5-year-old willingly participates in the life of the family. She expresses interest in herself, she willingly cooperates with us, since she started walking. Everyone grabs her head as much as she can, but the truth is that it is enough for a child to let the child show how to do something correctly […]. We do not raise children for ourselves, but for themselves, they must be able to cope without us next to us. Let’s be supported, but Let’s allow independence and doing it better or worse, trying to fix errors. Yes, the child not only acquires skills, but also confidence, is open to challenges, does not be discouraged by failure and willingly tries new things, which only pays off with time. I have never forced our child to do anything, but she gladly follows in our footsteps, “the next person wrote.
Should children have home duties? The psychologist talks about extremes
Edyta Zając also drew attention to the issue of independence. “Between how we were brought up ourselves and how often children are brought up today, there is a great gap. I try to see these voices of indignation. People, once overloaded with a lot of duties, today want to protect their children from such childhood. But one extreme can cause another. “
Our task is to raise a man who will someday be an adult = independent. By limiting the child in this way, we bring up an eternal child who will be afraid of adulthood. Lack of duties, no opportunity to learn all this does not build confidence
– a psychologist said. And what does it look like in your homes? Did your children have their responsibilities, or maybe you are of the opinion that they will work in life? We encourage you to participate in the poll and comment.
Source: Gazeta
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