It is accepted that lavish weddings are a tradition. Although, of course, everything depends on the desire and capabilities of the brides. Sometimes they decide on smaller parties. It would seem that this is happening more and more often, but – as the results of the study “what are modern weddings” conducted by a dream gift service – dreams – Chamber weddings constitute only 15 percent. all such celebrations. The vast majority of brides focus on greater weddings: about 100 people (36 percent) and 100-200 people (33 percent).
“She didn’t know who her guest was and who’s husband. She didn’t know half of the people”
Many couples really love such occasions, but often the decision about what their own wedding should look like, it does not quite belong to them. Their parents often have a lot to say – especially when they finance all or part of the party. For this reason, some couples bend their wedding visions and weddings in order to satisfy their mother, father -in -law, grandmother or uncle. And the whole family, which they may not even see the opportunity to see. As it looked like in the case of our interlocutor:
I delay the wedding because I would like to be modest. My fiancé’s parents have so many plans and dreams about our event that I am scared by the vision of confrontation with them. It will probably be with a flourish, because I feel sorry for my father -in -law who has a huge family. My parents have already forgiven, because after they arranged such a sumptuous wedding to their sister, they have enough. The sister did not know who her guest was and who was her husband. She didn’t know half of the people.
– My husband and I both like large weddings, so we wanted to invite a lot of people to ours – another interlocutor began. – The problem arose when the in -laws began to insist to get scared of a distant family, which even they didn’t quite remember. We waved a hand for the sake of peace. But to this day I remember how my husband called everyone and when introducing himself, he had to travel half a family tree, so that he would get at all, with whom they talk. Ultimately, Pandemic changed our plans and we organized a wedding for 50 people. Only the immediate family and friends. And honestly? I would not exchange it for a lavish party – she concluded.
“Always, when I spend somehow stupidly, I am comforted that you can lose even more”
The issue of money is also important. Weddings and weddings cost their. According to the cited study, for the occasion We spend up to 50,000 usually PLN (43 percent of respondents). Slightly less, but still a lot, because 39 percent It spends 50 to 100,000 zloty. During conversations about this type of event, many people have certainly heard mocking from expensive weddings, and jokes about taking loans for a one -day party are basically the norm.
I don’t understand people who spend over 100,000 to organize a wedding. It’s one day. I understand memories, but here love is the most important thing. It can be celebrated in a more modest way. There is typical Polish splendor at these events
– the next interlocutor told us and added: – I invited my loved ones. The wedding was civil, but in Kazimierz Dolny. Then by ferry we sailed to the premises where we had a modest feast, dances. We played the music ourselves. In my opinion it was great, and we did not spend a fortune – she said. Another person has a similar opinion:
– For me, Polish weddings are associated with unnecessary expenses of a huge amount of money. I am honestly surprised that people are playing it. I was once at such a lavish wedding, today these people are long after divorce. I also have a friend who got married in Spain for several hundred thousand. The marriage did not survive the year. So always, when I spend somehow stupidly, I am comforted that you can lose an even larger amount. A great wedding is not a guarantee of a successful marriage, and I don’t like such events. I see no sense to organize them. However, I always emphasize that I am flexible. And if the other side was very careful, I have no problem. I think it’s not worth arguing about it. However, my partner is unlikely to have dreams of a grand party – she concluded. And what is your opinion about weddings? We invite you to participate in the poll and commenting.
Source: Gazeta
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