Emilia Lichtenberg-Kokoszka from the University of Opole is the author of a guide for Catholics entitled “Sex in the confessional”. The book is also aimed at priests, “chastity specialists” who “deal with it best”. Gazeta Wyborcza looked at the theories she propagates there. Among them, she explains rapes, scares people with “homosexuality”, focuses on male needs, blames women for arousing desire and using contraception.
“It is inappropriate to bring men to erotic arousal and then suddenly refuse”
As Emilia Lichtenberg-Kokoszka claims, if a woman has a “flirtatious manner and does not expect anything”, she can mislead men. “It is inappropriate to lead men to erotic arousal and a sudden refusal of closeness (caressing, intercourse)” – we read. The graduate of the University of Wrocław then adds: “Some women do it completely unconsciously – through their innate sex appeal, they arouse certain hopes and expectations in the opposite sex, and then they are outraged by an unambiguous erotic proposal. In this context, you should control your behavior and be aware of how you may be perceived by the opposite sex.”
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This introduction is supposed to lead to an explanation of why rapes occur in marriages. According to her, men’s erotic sensitivity is not matched to women’s. She argues that men are aroused “sometimes with great force”, which is reinforced by alcohol, pornography and “erotic needs and imaginations”. She adds that “in this context, women often consciously or unconsciously exceed the threshold of sensitivity and endurance of representatives of the male sex”.
Scaring about premarital sex and “homosexuality”
There are many more absurdities in the position. From the analysis of Gazeta Wyborcza we learn that Lichtenberg-Kokoszka claims that people who have premarital sex do not have a chance to really get to know their partner. Moreover, she considers women who do it less attractive to men and claims that if they enter marriage with a baggage of sexual experience, there is a greater chance that they will be cheated on.
He also spreads the thesis that “a small group of homosexuals are interested in creating long-term relationships and stabilization (sometimes also their legalization in the eyes of the law) and demand the right to adoption. The majority prefer multiple relationships with multiple partners.”
In turn, in the chapter on contraception, she warns of complications and health complications. She claims that there is no justification for its use, just like for abortion. It is the feelings of a man after the termination of pregnancy that are most important to her. A man “feels distressed, angry, outraged”; “he experiences depression, a sense of helplessness, loneliness, fear, anger at himself and his partner, he feels guilty and has made a life mistake” – she writes. This is not surprising, because the entire guide is maintained in a similar tone.
Source: Gazeta
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