At the beginning, it is worth asking yourself what betrayal means to you. Each person may understand it differently. For most people, however, it is close physical contact with another person: a kiss, sexual intercourse. In the summer, side-diving occurs more often. People use the absence of a partner or a trip with friends as an excuse to have an adventure.
Why People Cheat: Psychologist Points Out Main Cause
There is a common belief that the modern man cheats because he is going through a crisis and wants to “feel like a real man”. – The truth is more complex – said psychologist Joanna Drosio-Czaplińska in an interview with “Newsweek”. She revealed that during therapy sessions, patients give many different reasons for cheating. According to her, side-offs result from the “crisis of traditional relationships”. There is equality, the classical division of duties has disappeared.
– For centuries, marriage was an economic alliance and a pragmatic relationship in which he earned money and she took care of the house and children. Today, he and she earn the same – the expert explained. Drosio-Czaplińska believes that people have too high expectations of each other, for example because of romances in movies or stories read in the press. Because of this, they start to think that their life is not perfect and they look for something new.
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What is betrayal for a man? Either way, he returns to his wife later
– Holidays are a harvest for recruitment. Bored wives have more time because the children are going to their grandparents. It’s easier to get them out of the house. First coffee, then I invite them to my studio apartment in Warsaw. Where is the wife during this time? In our house – said one of the weekly’s interlocutors. According to the man, it’s a normal arrangement and a way to deal with boredom. He even sees a certain advantage to the affair. “I take care of myself and I don’t get old. My wife only benefits from it,” he added. Betrayal most often occurs during vacations, because then we have greater access to temptations. “We feel less bound by moral principles. On vacation, we are often anonymous, and this gives us the feeling that our actions will not have consequences,” said psychotherapist Jessica Kmieć in an interview with “Dzień dobry TVN”. If If you feel like it, vote in our poll below.
Source: Gazeta
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