There is no single definition of intelligence, and how to recognize an intelligent person has been the subject of debate among psychologists and sociologists for decades. However, there are several features that can distinguish intelligent people from others. First of all, they can adapt to any situation. They constantly feel the desire to develop and acquire knowledge. And what they learn, they easily use in their everyday lives. They have the freedom to solve problems and always manage to deal with conflict situations with style. They are distinguished by emotional knowledge, creativity and easily adapt to the environment. What behaviors do they avoid in everyday life? Here are six of them.
They don’t gossip about others
Talking about others consumes a lot of energy and generates conflict situations. Intelligent people are well aware that nothing good ever comes from gossiping, and talking about someone behind their back is a source of shame for them. Instead of wasting their time this way, they focus on constructive discussions and resolving conflict situations before they escalate.
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They do not avoid difficult topics
Some people avoid difficult conversations and are afraid of confrontation. Intelligent people focus on how to prepare arguments and conduct a difficult conversation to present their point of view to the interlocutor. Even if they do not end the discussion successfully, they are not afraid to raise uncomfortable topics.
They don’t prove their worth to anyone
Intelligent people are perfectly aware of how much they are worth. They don’t have to force themselves to impress anyone or pretend to be someone they are not to gain recognition. Instead of looking for applause, they focus on developing their own skills and interests. They know exactly where they are going and what they need to do to get there.
They do not ignore other people’s feelings
It is very easy to hurt another person with your behavior. Intelligent people are highly empathetic and can put themselves in the shoes of others. They care about people and build relationships based on mutual respect. They don’t just talk about themselves, but listen to what people around them have to say.
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They do not absorb information uncritically
In the age of the Internet, it is easy to be manipulated by fake news. Intelligent people usually verify the news they read. They base their knowledge on scientific research and proven sources of information. For them, only facts matter, even if they do not fully match their values.
They do not give in to emotions and impulses
Regardless of the situation they find themselves in, they try to keep their nerves under control and do not act on impulse. They always try to distance themselves and think about the consequences that their actions may have. They are aware that hasty decisions may have negative consequences and they avoid them in everyday life.
Source: Gazeta
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