It turns out that baptisms, first communion or your own wedding are topics that generate not only a lot of stress and anxiety, but also a lot of family quarrels and severe fights. Many of them, like baptisms or communions, have an impact on the child himself, although it is not guilty of anything.
My husband has not been interested in the child for the last year. This changed recently when organizing communion
Maria will have her own son’s communion in two weeks. Even though everything has been planned and organized a long time ago, the family conflict is still going on. “My husband’s fatherly instincts suddenly awakened. For a year after the divorce, he didn’t have much time to take an interest in his child, MikoĊaj could only count on occasional phone calls.. Now it turns out that my husband wants to participate in communion over my dead body.” Maria explains that after everything that happened, she is not able to sit at the same table with her ex-husband.
The conflict between parents is intensifying. However, no one asked the child for his opinion
The conflict is escalating. The ex-husband informed Maria that he had prepared everything, his family was invited, the hall and attractions were booked. The woman was forced to take out a small loan. Her family is not very large, but these 25 people have to be accommodated somehow, plus 7 children. “Day after day, there are fights over who of the parents will be the first to take the child to their family. My ex-partner doesn’t want to let go – he thinks that since he hasn’t had much time with his own son in recent months, he has priority. What about me? Every day I double and triple myself, struggle with problems, comfort, support, work and barely make ends meet, and should I just let it go? I don’t know what to do anymore…” – the angry woman ends her letter.
Even if, at first glance, organizing two celebrations seems like a bad idea when it was dictated by the child’s well-being, it proves the parents’ ability to come to an agreement. It also helps save unnecessary nerves and frustration.
– says Marianna Chamerska, family mediator.
This has a chance of success, but only if the situation takes place between parents who strive for an agreement and are guided by the best interests of the child., and not when there are fights and fights between them. The child then suffers.
Source: Gazeta
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