Although spring is still far away and the season for spring metamorphoses is still far away, Mrs. Marika did not want to wait another month and started her transformation in January. She spotted a hairstyle called “grunge bob” that is now fashionable among influencers on social media. It’s quite a short hairstyle with a rock character that caused a lot of marital tension.
Grunge bob, grande disaster?
Bob is one of those hairstyles for short hair that are fashionable in every season. Why? Because it comes back periodically in a refreshed formula. Recently, he has developed a very aggressive version, namely grunge bob. What is grunge bob? The grunge bob differs from the regular bob with strong and seemingly chaotic shading. The hair should have a rock and edgy style. They are supposed to resemble the hairstyle that teenagers do with scissors in their home garage, secretly from their parents. It refers to a rebellious look, the subculture of opposition and youthful cool.
I haven’t had short hair for a long time. My shoulder-length strands have been annoying me for a long time. I wanted to change something, show my character. A bold grunge bob seemed like a hit to me. The effect was a shock for me. My face has changed a lot.
Anyone interested in fashion knows well that any looseness or carelessness is usually achieved through very precise and meticulous hairdressing work. Mrs. Marika also knew about it, which is why – as our reader tells us – she consulted a trusted specialist. “I have been going to my hairdresser for years, I knew that she kept up with the trends and would definitely do something nice on my head. However, the effect was a shock for me. Unfortunately, for my husband too. What I heard from him drove me to a shoemaker’s passion. , but deep in my heart it made me very sad, especially since I paid PLN 300 for the whole thing.
The husband was not thrilled
Mrs. Marika returned home, as she tells us, excited, but also unsure of her new look. “I felt a bit intimidated by the way I look now, when I came home I was counting on some positive support, but I miscalculated.”
When I took off my hat, my husband didn’t say anything, he just looked at me with real disgust. When he made that face, I started asking questions. Then I heard excuses: “that it’s different”, “that he has to get used to it” and the like. When I pressed him, he blurted out: “I prefer it when a woman has long hair, it makes her look Slavic.”
“It chilled me. He’s such a feminist, women’s rights, abortion, etc., but when it comes down to it, he dreams of Slavic fairies. No one asked him for his opinion. The fact that he didn’t say a word, just made his face, is already expressing my opinion. I got angry and stopped talking for the rest of the day,” our reader reports with regret.
How to express your opinion and whether to do it at all
Everyone has probably experienced unwanted opinions at some point in their lives. They can hurt and create lasting doubts about your appearance. The question arises how to express your opinion in such a way so as not to unintentionally harm your interlocutor or interlocutor. Well, there is one way, not to express it at all. We are never sure how our words will be received. Perhaps they will rub salt into a fresh wound, or maybe they will relive old fears and traumas. In other words, until asked, let’s keep our opinions to ourselves.
Source: Gazeta
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