He can sit at the Christmas Eve table with his parents-in-law, provided he comes without children.  “It’s absurd”

He can sit at the Christmas Eve table with his parents-in-law, provided he comes without children. “It’s absurd”

Christmas without children – at first this thought sounds tempting. What mother wouldn’t want to slow down, rest, not have to do anything, not listen to arguments and not be needed for just 5 minutes. However, this was not what my mother-in-law meant. This is not concern, but lack of acceptance and tolerance for grandchildren who are not your own.

Christmas used to be a time Karolina looked forward to. The whole family at one table, a bit of hugs, noise, the smell of your favorite dishes and a sense of closeness. In the past, all the rules were set only by her, when she got married, her in-laws took over this tradition and they started inviting her to their place. She thought it would be nice too, after all they had become a family. Unfortunately, the first invitation to the holiday dispelled all doubts.

Christmas without children was tempting for the woman, but in the end she would not be able to separate herself from them

When her mother-in-law invited Karolina for the holidays for the first time, she told her to come only with their son, without any children. She suggested that both sons stay with their grandparents. At first the woman thought it was for the boys’ good. After all, they very rarely see their grandparents, and even less often stay with them overnight. Christmas without children was even tempting. Every mother needs some rest and relaxation, but ultimately she could not decide to spend the holidays – a time of family and closeness – without her children. This year the invitation was repeated for the third time, of course, as always, it did not include children. The boys’ mother admits that she is very sorry. Probably the point is that the boys are not their son’s children, but to not tolerate them and ignore them so much is beyond belief.

The mother-in-law clearly does not accept her step-grandchildren. They’re supposed to call her “ma’am”

Women come into contact with each other on a daily basis. The mother-in-law calls and invites her daughter-in-law to visit her, but always in the afternoon to be sure that the boys will be at the facilities at that time. When one of her sons once called her “grandma”, she quickly corrected him “no grandma, just Mrs. Halinka”. No matter what happens, she avoids contact with boys and is cold. When she recently found out that her daughter-in-law was pregnant, she went crazy with happiness.

I even thought that maybe this year I would go to her for Christmas Eve. And at the table together I will ask why he hates my boys so much? What did they do to her? However, this is such an important day that I want to spend it with my loved ones, to whom both me and my children are really important. And I want to show my mother-in-law the middle finger. Rightly?

Source: styl.fm/newsy

Source: Gazeta

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