It is a very popular and Polish custom to make wishes while breaking the wafer. We often wait all year round to meet in the family circle and all together and celebrate this festive time. However, all magic can go away in one moment. when people close to us, instead of showing through wishes that they really care about us and our happiness, they only stick a pin in matters that hurt us. Today we will present wishes that should not be made to relatives and friends on whom
These wishes for Christmas and New Years can hurt – “May you finally get smart”
There may be hidden suggestions under that one wording. Your family does not suit your partner or maybe your job or interests? Haven’t you chosen the studies that your loved ones dream about? Unfortunately, you can hear it not directly, but through words wrapped in “so that you finally get smart”. If you don’t want to hurt someone, never make such a wish. If an issue is bothering you, talk to him or her preferably after Christmas.
“That you should finally decide on a child” – changed by all cases
“That you would finally get pregnant” “that we meet in a larger group in a year” and so on. This is one of the least appropriate wishes for a young couple, and indeed you say whenever you want to hurt someone the worst in the world. You never know what is happening with this couple at this point. We are never sure if they are getting along, if they are not just after a miscarriage, or maybe they have been trying for a long time and nothing comes of it. Or maybe they just don’t feel ready! In such situations, these types of wishes are after
Unfortunate wishes for Christmas and New Year – “May you finally take care of yourself”
“That you would gain a little weight, because you will disappear from us in a moment”, “that you would finally lose weight”. So you are too fat for your loved ones, or maybe you haven’t had time to get your nails done at the beautician for Christmas and a new color at the hairdresser? For whom should we be perfect as we are if not for our loved ones? Sometimes weight is caused by an illness that a person does not want to talk about, especially on Christmas or New Years. Maybe she is a young mom who has not managed to lose weight or her priorities have changed. Respect this and do not make such wishes.
Source: Gazeta
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