On this occasion, Aaron Bond, a private detective from Bond Rees Private Investigations with many years of experience, spoke to “The Mirror” portal. The expert indicated four main signals that may indicate that our partner is in an intimate relationship with another person. “This ‘holiday list’ of suspicious signals from a private investigator will give you all the information you need to find out if your partner is unfaithful,” we read.
The first sign of infidelity, according to the expert, may be visible changes in behavior when using the phone. E.g. sudden change of access passwords.
If your partner starts taking his/her phone with him everywhere, even walks around the house with it, or becomes defensive when you ask to use his/her phone – it may mean that he/she is not faithful to you. You should also pay attention to how they put the phone away when it is not in use (…). If they put it face down on purpose, they may be hiding something
– says the detective.
How do you know if your partner is cheating on you? The expert indicates 4 main signals
Another symptom of betrayal, according to the expert, may be changes in behavior towards the other person. According to the detective, cheaters may suddenly be less effusive. They begin to share their feelings less with their partner, they open up to him/her less and do not confide in them. Suddenly, they also avoid spending time together – says The Mirror’s interlocutor.
If you feel like your partner has suddenly started avoiding you and doesn’t want to do anything with you anymore or stops telling you about their day, that’s another red flag (…). Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult. And remembering all the lies is often impossible. And it’s easy to get caught in one of them
– we read.
Another puzzling issue, according to Aaron Bond, may also be a clearly changed drive. In this context, however, one should be careful and avoid stereotypes and generalizations. Sex drive depends on many physical, mental and external factors. Therefore, its absence, weakening or increase does not necessarily indicate betrayal, but may be a signal of a completely different problem or phenomenon. In such situations, it is advisable to go to a professional – whether it be a doctor, a sexologist, a therapist or a psychologist – who will be able to provide us with appropriate, substantive support in this area.
According to Aaron Bond, a common misconception is that a cheater will be cold towards their partner. In his opinion, the frequency of intercourse with a spouse in such a situation may often be higher due to the “sense of guilt” and the desire to “mask one’s behavior.”
You may also find that your partner starts introducing new things into your sex life that weren’t there before
– says Aaron Bond.
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The fourth signal specified by the expert may be tension and stress. In such a situation, the cheater may start blaming his partner for all his alleged problems.
(…) To get rid of the tension he feels inside, he will try to convince himself that you are the problem. And suddenly, out of nowhere, he will become critical of you (…). Maybe that day you forgot to walk the dog, didn’t put the dishes in the dishwasher, or didn’t read a bedtime story to your kids… Such a small problem may now seem like a big deal. If you experience this, it is a sign that your partner may be cheating on you
– we read in the detective’s statement.
It is worth emphasizing, however, that – although the above-mentioned signals may indeed herald infidelity – this does not mean that each of them directly indicates an act of betrayal. Relationships, especially long-term ones, enter different stages and if we notice signs of disturbing behavior in our partner, the best solution at the very beginning will always be an honest conversation, showing support, understanding and communicating the willingness to solve the problem together.
Source: Mirror.co.uk
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