Because of the children, she is friends with her ex-husband.  “The new partner is probably very happy”

Because of the children, she is friends with her ex-husband. “The new partner is probably very happy”

At the end of October 2023, Riya Sokół published a short video on Instagram in which she raised an important issue regarding the relationship of partners after divorce. She confessed that she and her ex-husband became friends. They did it mainly for the sake of the children.

Adam “Nergal” Darski’s former girlfriend was once known under the pseudonym Pati Sokół. She was especially famous in 2013, when she showed up with a swastika on her face at the premiere of Juliusz Machulski’s film “AmbaSSada”. Later she explained that it was a kind of manifesto, and “she is not a Nazi” – she wrote on her blog on the “Na Subject” website. She also added that she herself has Jewish roots. At the end of her entry from years ago, she asked for forgiveness “those who, not knowing the content of the film and its intentions, took her manifesto hastily.”

“I didn’t want to offend anyone. On the contrary. Let’s believe in good intentions and let this sad story of ours finally be history,” she emphasized. After this incident, she withdrew from the limelight for a while. However, she has been active on Instagram as Riya Sokół for some time now. Her profile is followed by nearly 90,000 people. The celebrity has been involved in “spiritual” development for several years. He runs his own business, in which he offers, for example, development courses.

Riya Sokół about her relationship with her ex-husband. “Children experience conflict between their parents very much”

In one of his videos published on Instagram at the end of October this year. she touched upon a delicate, yet extremely important and vital issue. In a few instructive sentences, she explained why, after divorcing her husband, she decided to remain friends. – First of all: we have children, and our children look at how we behave and this becomes their model for acting in their lives, for entering into relationships on exactly the same principle – she began.

Secondly, children experience conflict between their parents very much. This has a very negative effect on their nervous system. I wanted to ask about this relationship so as not to cause them additional stress, and to create a calmer environment for them

– she mentioned.

Finally, Riya Sokół said that instead of wasting time on unnecessary arguments and constant fighting, it could be spent in a much more pleasant and constructive way. – She can use all this time for fun, going out with friends, dating and other wonderful things – she noted. – I can really do my best to bring peace and peace with my ex-husband. And it was really worth it, she concluded.

Is it easy? NO. Is this for everyone? NO. But I’m in the business of showing you what’s potentially possible. To inspire you and give you hope. Because I never had it either, and I know how difficult it is to feel alone. I love you and thank you for being here

– we read in the description of the recording

Riya Sokół is friends with her ex-husband. Internet users: “They were former, there are no friendly relations”

Although it must be admitted that her words point to a very right course of action, it is not obvious to everyone. And it’s not always possible, commenters note. “You simply can’t deal with a toxic person and a narcissist,” writes one Instagram user.

They were they were! There are no friendly relations! Are you also friends with your ex-boyfriends?

And immediately after the breakup you took on such a noble attitude? If so, I congratulate you and sincerely envy you. However, if you were leaving a marriage with a narcissist, I find it hard to believe

It’s great that you managed to do it, it’s really great. What if the other side doesn’t want to reach an agreement at all? Is he a narcissistic person and all he wants is to make life miserable? Despite my sincere intentions, there is no agreement

Unfortunately, it is very difficult. My husband told me that if I move out of his house, we won’t know each other. We have a daughter together and I guess it’s not quite that simple

I would really like it to be like this, but the other side has to cooperate. And in my case it’s rather unrealistic

The new partner is probably super happy about this. And you probably also tolerate your new partner having a friend in his ex

Children will do the same. For them, divorce will be something normal

– we read in selected comments.

Riya Sokół talks about friendship with her husband, and there is a storm in the comments. “People here are limited.”

Some Internet users, in turn, agreed with this vision of the relationship after breakup. Several of them also shared their experiences in this regard:

Beautiful, but a lot also depends on the other person, whether he or she is mature enough

This requires incredible emotional maturity. Congratulations

I strongly believe that speaking out loud about the different face of a breakup will inspire others, I’m not talking about the inspiration to break up, but to break up peacefully when there is nothing left to save. Drop drills Rock. Fortunately, as a patron, I already notice this change in thinking

We are friends too, it’s a matter of emotional intelligence

I’ve been divorced for 8 (or maybe 9) years, we maintain friendly relations, we meet on holidays and on occasions, it wasn’t easy – especially at the beginning. But I’ve sorted it out in my head, I think my ex-husband does too and I know that each of us can count on each other (we have two sons, 26 and 16)

I would like that too, except that my ex-partner sees me as enemy number 1, he cannot forgive the breakup and my behavior in general, he has been coming back to this in every conversation for 4.5 years now

A very good approach, but as you can see, even the people commenting here are too limited to understand what you’re talking about and why you’re sharing it. Don’t worry about these people, let them go through their world with their limited mind

– we read in the comments under the post.

Source: Instagram

Source: Gazeta

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