The coach “was staring at her the whole time.” She finally noticed him. She couldn’t believe what she heard from others

Bogna Kowalczyk is a therapist, somatic and emotional educator. During her visits to the gym, she confronted a man who was staring at her obtrusively. When she published the video, she did not receive a favorable reaction from Internet users.

The coach was watching her in the gym. “He went ahead and claimed I was obsessed.”

Bogna Kowalczyk shared a video on her Tiktok profile in which she talks about how she has been training on the same training ground for a year, and one of the trainers is constantly watching and spying on her. — There was a moment when we were training, literally a few meters away from each other, and he kept staring at me. As I continued to exercise, I began to feel angry. Because I just want to train – she said in an interview for “”

The tiktoker finally decided to react. — So I got up, walked over to him, and calmly told him that I wanted him to stop looking at me. (…) At first he pretended not to see or hear me. When I didn’t leave and repeated the message, he replied that he wasn’t looking at me at all. Sometimes you get lost in thought and look at someone for a longer time, sometimes you like someone’s T-shirt: you can apologize, explain and that’s it. And he kept going, claiming that I was obsessed, she said in the interview.

A wave of hate poured out in the comments. “There was a feeling that a very small thing had turned into a big deal.”

The tiktokerka argues that the recording caused a lot of emotions. — My video has been viewed over 130,000 times. times and there was a feeling that a very small thing had turned into a big fuss and I was to blame for it, because it was my goal from the beginning, which is not true – she added. However, Bogna Kowalczyk does not regret that she recorded the video and plans to organize a webinar on confrontation and ways of communicating one’s feelings.