I heard from the gynecologist that I can “make children” with confidence. Earlier, he was telling me that I was already pregnant

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“I’ve always been afraid of going to the gynecologist and put it off for a long time before finally going for a routine check-up. Even though I knew I should have done it in my teens, I didn’t decide until after I started having sex with my current partner. that I’m probably not the only person who has been delaying it for so long, so I didn’t blame myself much, but I didn’t think that this short visit would change my opinion about gynecologists so much.

“I didn’t think that the gynecologist I went to would be such a simpleton”

I may start from the beginning. I didn’t have much knowledge about the specialists who accept in my city. So I chose the one he was seeing at the hospital. It seemed to me the most reasonable solution. I didn’t think that the gynecologist I went to would turn out to be such a simpleton. When I entered the office and told him that my period was late, he immediately said that I was definitely pregnant. I assured him that my partner and I were using protection and I was sure I hadn’t gotten pregnant, but he denied it, implying that he knew better. I was angry, but I thought there was no point in arguing with him, and I just let it go. However, this is not the end of the cabaret.

“He admitted I had a ‘nice uterus’ and should go home ‘make babies'”

When he invited me to the chair and started examining me, I tried not to show him that I was uncomfortable. I covered up my bad emotions and wanted this visit to end as soon as possible. Unfortunately, the gynecologist surprised me again. He openly admitted that I had a “nice uterus” and should go home to “make babies”. What he said just blew me away. I didn’t know what to do, so I stayed silent. We finished the visit on standard terms, but I didn’t even look at this whole “specialist”. This visit left an imprint on my psyche. I won’t forget it for the rest of my life. I don’t wish this life experience on anyone. I don’t know when my next time alone with the gynecologist is.”

Dominica.

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