Interference of parents in the organization of the wedding happens quite often. They tend to be overly active, especially when they participate in the costs of the event, and the greater their financial contribution, the more things they try to do in their own way. Persuasive interference in the organization of the wedding and reception makes many young couples want nothing more.
Parents drive young couples crazy. “We put up the money, so we have the right”
Young people very often do not expect such behavior, and before starting preparations they are convinced that “after all, their parents are not like that” and they will certainly not interfere and impose their opinion. The reality, however, turns out to be completely different, which is often the cause of tensions and many quarrels. Several former and future brides told us how it was or is in their case.
I understand that if the parents are paying for the wedding, they can advise or dissuade, but the constant meddling, changing everything, arguing about the amount of alcohol and the number of guests … There are still a few months until the wedding and we are already sick and tired
– writes Iga.
We pay for our wedding ourselves, but that doesn’t stop my future mother-in-law from constantly changing the guest list and finding more people from the family that it’s “inappropriate” not to invite … I want to tell her that if she wants, maybe she can organize her second wedding – then everything will be her way
Julia confessed.
At some point, after all the changes our parents tried to impose on us, we decided that from then on, we didn’t tell them anything! Their financial contribution was not so large that we would let ourselves get into it. They had to come to terms with it, but to this day they haunt the mother-in-law’s texts like: And in my opinion, it’s better that …
Adriana recalls.
We heard with my fiancé: “we put money, so we have the right to know what it is spent on”. There were problems not only with the guest list, but also with the menu. We had to cross out a few friends because “a bit too many of them” and because of the wine, which was supposedly “too expensive”!
says Kamila.
Source: Gazeta
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