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There are many hypotheses that women reject nice men and choose unavailable tough guys. Everyone has a friend in their circle who withdrew from a relationship when a potential partner was too considerate and kind. As psychologist Sylwia Miller explained, women confronted with “nice and too polite men” may claim that they do not have their own opinion and begin to think that in the future they could not take responsibility for them and their family. However, there are other theories as to why we reject good men.
Why do we reject for good guys? “The overwhelming kindness is unbearable for these women.”
psychologist Marlena Ewa Kazoń notes that the model of family that women take from home is not without significance. If the men in the family were macho, a nice man might be something that would scare her.
For such a woman, a warm man can be threatening, too sure, so unknown. Her nervous system is addicted to anxiety and constant fear that “something is about to happen”. The overwhelming kindness is unbearable for these women
– explained the expert and added that some women feel overwhelmed by too frequent compliments, overacting and being good. Especially if the relationship between the parents was unstable. “The feeling of security is unknown, hence the rejection of safe men” – added the expert.
Blame low self-esteem
Couples therapist Joanna Godecka, in turn, lists low self-esteem as one of the reasons for rejecting nice men.
A person who has low self-esteem often tries their best to earn love and acceptance. This can be a nuisance. A woman can feel awkward when a man is overly focused on her. Everything should be in harmony
– she said in.
Source: Gazeta
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