Ursula Strenge reveals that she didn’t have a relationship for seven years because she didn’t feel satisfied with herself: “I went through many moments of loneliness”

After death ivan nogales in 2014, Ursula Strenge she spent seven years alone. She is now in a relationship with a TV host Isaac slimbut for a long time he closed his heart to the possibility of new love.

“I didn’t ask for it, I always believed in love. I took my time, some people appeared with whom there was an intention, but nothing ever materialized because I felt that I was not yet ready to open up or commit to a relationship,” he revealed to Gaby Diaz in your digital program: Diaz of life.

“For that jump, you have to strengthen your relationship with yourself,” she admitted. “I went through many moments of loneliness, I learned to turn it around because in the beginning I felt that this word was super huge and super big,” she said, adding that she had to learn to be alone again because she lived with it for years. partner and family, something with which she is done and she had to find how to feel comfortable without it, which she managed by going to therapy, reading a lot and connecting with silence and meditation.

Ursula He has three daughters from that marriage: Ivan, Christina and Camila; and he always includes them in everything he does: “we became a much stronger team than before and they suddenly matured in the face of this harsh reality, but I also started to include them in decisions that used to be couples’ decisions and which I later said ‘ Well, I’m not alone, we are a new team, a new family formed in a different way and they must be part of this process.”

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In the first year, she focused on meeting the needs of her daughter, on arranging the home, on rethinking the family business, and she forgot to feel, to take care of her emotions. “Given that at first when I wanted to cry or vent I tried not to do it in front of the girls so they wouldn’t feel my pain, but then I realized that they have to go through all that pain with me because it would make them stronger,” she admitted.

After a year, they started doing everything together, following each other in sadness but pal up And so it was Ursula He began to work in his family nucleus, putting into practice so many years of studying emotional intelligence in psychology.

“In practice, you lose your books. All those great psychologists and thinkers remain waiting in the drawer and you have to start applying the recipe that works for you, and so it was with the girls; If they did things like that with dad, we decided how we would do it together.”

From the simplest to the most difficult decisions, they thought about them together. “They gave me great lessons about strength, problem-solving skills, a lot of things that they actually taught me,” he added.

Ursula and Isaac They confirmed their relationship in July 2021. (AND)