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12 commandments of a good husband.  This is what the wife should hear regularly.  The controversial list stirs emotions

12 commandments of a good husband. This is what the wife should hear regularly. The controversial list stirs emotions

The list of 12 things a wife should regularly hear from her husband has caused a lot of controversy on the Internet. Conservative bullshit or universal truth? Decide for yourself…

On the Internet you can find many different profiles of “experts” in virtually every field. It is our responsibility to skillfully select the accounts we observe and check several times whether people claiming to be specialists in a given field are actually such.

On Twitter recently, a post by a specialist in the field of marriage and raising children aroused a lot of emotions. He created a list of 12 sentences that a husband should regularly repeat to his wife. Internet users, however, agreed in the comments, claiming that the list is extremely accurate.

What does the list of an Internet user with a nickname look like @FoundationDads, who on his Twitter profile “helps to become a better father” and “is a leader in the household” also supports “raising male sons, and female daughters”? Can there really be a greater truth to it? Judge for yourself.

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1. Follow me

The author of the post claims that the woman wants to follow her husband. The word “husband” is associated with home management and leadership. The husband should lead the home, provide security and be a “leader”.

2. I’ll take care of it

In this subsection we read that a man has broad shoulders to carry heavy things. It was created to perform difficult tasks. A husband should be willing to take on difficult tasks. If he sees that his wife is stressed about something, he should want to immediately solve her problem and relieve her.

3. I love you

Love is the foundation of everything. If the husband does not love his wife, nothing else matters. Love is the foundation of a healthy relationship.

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4. You are beautiful

The husband chooses his wife, and he should affirm his choice by regularly emphasizing and appreciating her beauty. He shouldn’t look at other women, he shouldn’t compare her to other women. It is his wife who should be an indicator of female beauty for him.

5. I’m sorry, forgive me

A husband should know when to apologize. He should have known when he made a mistake. He should not apologize for peace of mind, but do it from the heart. Otherwise, the relationship will be built on a lie.

6. No

A husband should know when to say no to his wife. A husband should be able to set healthy boundaries. A husband who cannot stand up for his wife cannot stand up for her either.

7. I’m listening to you

A wife needs a companion, she needs to know that she is heard. And while the husband must set boundaries, he must also be open to listening to his wife. He can’t be proud.

8. I need you

A husband should not be afraid to say openly that he needs help from his wife.

9. I want you

A wife must feel that she is desired by her husband. A healthy marriage must be built on mutual sexual attraction.

10. Don’t worry about it

The wife will often worry. The husband must be able to listen to her worries and fears, but at some point he must tell her not to worry. If a marriage is built on trust, the wife will know that together they will solve the problem.

11. You have more important things to do

A husband cannot hold his wife responsible for providing for the family. It’s his job. For the wife, it is more important to raise children, take care of the house.

12. Thank you

The husband will ask for many things from his wife, he must be able to show gratitude. He should look for an opportunity to do so. A wife does many things that a husband would not be able to do. No man bears the scars of having children.

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Reading a list created by an internet user @FoundationDads we can clearly see what values ​​he professes. Everyone has the right to build his life in the form that he considers right and that makes him happy. Regardless of whether the values ​​espoused by @FoundationDads agree with ours or not, we can agree that the list is based primarily on mutual respect, love and gratitude for building a home together. It is up to us whether we decide on the classic model of running a house or not. One thing is certain, we must be able to support our partner and make them feel loved and appreciated every day.

Source; Twitter

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